In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
Good Morning. We live in a beautiful small town in Northwest Florida. In the early mornings before it gets so busy, I notice the beauty of this quiet little town. This morning I’m enjoying the stillness. It’s so quiet I can hear God talking to me.
Now, there are good and bad things to all cities, small and large. One of the bad things in our small town is everyone knows everyone. The people are closely connected. Everyone knows your business. There are no secrets. Whereas, if you live in a big city, you can go unnoticed. The bad is also a good thing. Since everyone knows everyone, where ever you go you will see someone you know. We look out for each other, and are quick to notice strangers. We are kind to strangers, but not so quick to include them into our small town family. It takes a little while for them to assimilate. You see, the good and bad in our town are like a double-edged sword. Looking out for everyone is great, but when you want to run to the store unnoticed, it’s not going to happen.
I was thinking this morning that this double-edged sword thinking is common in many things. I’m the Municipal Development Director for our City. People come to me and complain about the laws. They get really worked up and upset. They think the laws are too strict for a small town. The same people come and complain when their neighbor is doing something and the law allows it. Hmmm. There is no easy answer, because you can’t make everyone happy.
Often these same situations happen in families. My friend is a new mother. At first her family was upset because she wasn’t working. Now, they are upset because she’s a working mother. Imagine her frustration. She can’t make her family happy, and she wants her children to enjoy close family bonds. I remember similar dilemmas when my children were little. I was asked, will you let your baby cry and learn to calm himself, or are you going to be one who quickly picks your baby up when he cries? I remember thinking, this is a trick question, because the answer is somewhere in the middle.
Have you ever felt like you just don’t fit it, or maybe like you are being smothered? Do you feel like there are no right answers and you can’t find real happiness? The best thing to do is study the Bible and talk to God. It’s amazing how similar the issues were in Bible times. No matter how many times I read the Bible, I learn something new. God doesn’t want you to be unhappy no matter where you are. For example, Jesus instructs in Matthew 22:38 -39, that we are to love God with all our hearts, and love our neighbors like we love ourselves. We are taught about acceptance of others in Romans 15:7 “[w]herefore receive ye one another, as Christ also received us to the glory of God.” The stories in the Bible are relevant as well. Read the story of Ruth and how she took care of her mother-in-law. She was rewarded by God.
Today, I encourage you to first, forgive yourself and others. Then, read God’s word and ask him to guide you through life’s problems. God bless.